Q & A from "Upstairs"

It is time to be in the connected state more and see what depth, connection, and clarity I am able to get from my automatic writings.  Below are some questions posed by people, and the answers from “upstairs”.
These pages are an extension of what I began in my book, Profound Words from Common People / How to Tap into Upstairs and Write Amazing Words.
Here are some of the questions I intend to go within and answer, one by one--but not necessarily in that order:
  1. My life revolves around my 19 yo troubled daughter who has had a very difficult path.  I am distraught about this. How can I best help her?
  2. As an actor, how does one have all the access—full, quick, immediate access you can go to in 30 seconds—but not manifest those feelings states in your personal life?
  3. I was programmed to believe that if you don’t accept Christ as your savior, there is no salvation in the next life.   
  4. The higher we are on the vibrational scale, are we more aware we are generating our reality?
  5. I’ve studied with amazing healers who tell me to say prayers of protection, and to surround myself with white light.  And I wonder why I should do that.
  6. People enjoy things that others probably don’t think should be enjoyed.
  7. If just feeling good is the key, people can do violent acts that actually make them feel better than they did.  But what about the people on the receiving end of these acts?
  8. My spouse and I moved to a small town because we wanted to have a more simple life.  But it’s not what we thought it would be.  The houses are too close, the town is too small and I am unhappy here.
  9. I would love to go on a cruise.  But, I don’t have the money, I’d have to work extra shifts, what about my son, should I really afford to go on the cruise if I couldn’t take him.  How do I get in full alignment with “I want to go on the cruise” and be able to manifest that it works out?
  10. How do we identify these things that are holding us back and how do we get rid of those things?
  11. My boss said, “I’m your boss, I tell you what to do”.  I know I can’t change her.  She is the one making that decision.  So I have this desire to be heard, to be treated with respect and to do the kind of work that I love.  Do I have to leave the job to do that?
  12. I am very good at manifesting things I want, and I also find that it happens in negative ways.  I think of horrible things so hard, I think I’m going to manifest that.
  13. Is there a fundamental difference in energy between men and women?